And the woman you were before him isn't gone. She's waiting. Unbecoming is where you go to get her back.
It was never you. You weren't crazy. You were being trained — and training can be undone.
Tonight, when your mind starts building the case again, put your bare feet on the floor and say: "I don't have to prove what happened to me for it to be true." The nervous system hears it before the mind believes it. That's why we repeat it. That's how unbecoming begins.
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Welcome — I'm glad you found your way here. I've been where you are. I walked out of my own relationship that erased me before I ever guided another woman out of hers, so I know the fog from the inside — and I know the way back. For twenty years, guiding women home to themselves has been my life's work.
I read what members share. I answer what I can. Unbecoming is a small room on purpose, because being seen is the medicine — and you cannot be seen in a crowd of ten thousand.
If you recognized yourself on this page, the door is open. Come when you're ready.